Choose the substitute based on texture: for a choy-sum-like stem bite, pick gai lan or bok choy; for leafy-only swaps, use spinach at the end.
Prep like choy sum: trim tough ends, slice thicker stems thin (gai lan/bok choy/chard), and keep leaves larger so they don’t overcook.
Stir-fry briefly: cook stems first for 60–90 seconds, then add leaves and toss until just wilted and bright.
Taste and balance: if your substitute is peppery (mustard/turnip greens), add a small pinch of sugar or a touch more sauce to round the bite.
Serve immediately for best texture—these greens lose crunch quickly if held.