Choose a substitute based on the flavor driver: floral (elderflower cordial/syrup) vs fruity (lychee) vs complex body (dry sherry).
Use the ratio listed as your starting point, then taste—especially for syrups (often sweeter/thicker than liqueur).
For cocktails, stir gently and add citrus or sparkling water to open the aroma; for baking, dissolve fully into wet ingredients before combining dry.
If the substitute lacks floral character, add a small extra splash of elderflower cordial/tea rather than increasing citrus too much.
If it’s too sweet, dilute with water or replace part of the liquid with sparkling water or unsweetened juice.